{"id":550,"date":"2025-08-11T08:52:49","date_gmt":"2025-08-11T08:52:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/who-cared.com\/?page_id=550"},"modified":"2025-09-19T13:33:43","modified_gmt":"2025-09-19T13:33:43","slug":"question-guide","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/who-cared.com\/en\/question-guide\/","title":{"rendered":"Question Guide"},"content":{"rendered":"<section class=\"l-section wpb_row us_custom_1d3424a0 height_medium\"><div class=\"l-section-h i-cf\"><div class=\"g-cols vc_row via_grid cols_custom laptops-cols_inherit tablets-cols_inherit mobiles-cols_1 valign_middle type_default stacking_default\" style=\"--columns-gap:0rem;--custom-columns:1fr 4fr 1fr \"><div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><\/div><\/div><div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><div class=\"wpb_text_column\"><div class=\"wpb_wrapper\"><h2 style=\"text-align: center;\">Question-Guide<\/h2>\n<\/div><\/div><div class=\"w-separator size_medium\"><\/div><div class=\"wpb_text_column\"><div class=\"wpb_wrapper\"><p style=\"text-align: center;\">This guide is intended to provide orientation and inspiration. You do not have to stick to it completely, nor do you have to ask all the questions you find here. Let your curiosity guide you. Further down you will find<span> General questions and ideas for each topic block, how you can evoke concrete memories.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">A few general tips for conducting a conversation:<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/section><section class=\"l-section wpb_row height_auto\"><div class=\"l-section-h i-cf\"><div class=\"g-cols vc_row via_grid cols_4 laptops-cols_inherit tablets-cols_inherit mobiles-cols_1 valign_top type_default stacking_default\" style=\"--columns-gap:2rem;\"><div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><div class=\"wpb_text_column\"><div class=\"wpb_wrapper\"><h6 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #dd5267;\">Ask open questions<\/span><\/h6>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">These questions can't be answered with a simple \u201cyes\u201d or \u201cno.\u201d For example, What did the children's room look like? How did you feel?<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><div class=\"w-separator size_small\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><div class=\"wpb_text_column\"><div class=\"wpb_wrapper\"><h6 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #dd5267;\">Personal experience counts<\/span><\/h6>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Many people think they have nothing to tell. Make it clear that personal stories are part of collective memory.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><div class=\"w-separator size_small\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><div class=\"wpb_text_column\"><div class=\"wpb_wrapper\"><h6 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #dd5267;\">Listen actively and ask clarifying questions<\/span><\/h6>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Don't be afraid of pauses and don't constantly think about the next question \u2013 real conversations happen in the exchange.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><div class=\"w-separator size_small\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><div class=\"wpb_text_column\"><div class=\"wpb_wrapper\"><h6 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #dd5267;\">Convey security<\/span><\/h6>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Sentences don't need to sound perfect, there are no wrong answers. Pauses and cuts are possible at any time.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><div class=\"w-separator size_small\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/section><section class=\"l-section wpb_row us_custom_1d3424a0 height_medium\"><div class=\"l-section-h i-cf\"><div class=\"g-cols vc_row via_grid cols_custom laptops-cols_inherit tablets-cols_inherit mobiles-cols_1 valign_middle type_default stacking_default\" style=\"--columns-gap:0rem;--custom-columns:1fr 4fr 1fr \"><div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><\/div><\/div><div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><div class=\"wpb_text_column\"><div class=\"wpb_wrapper\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/section><section class=\"l-section wpb_row us_custom_1d3424a0 height_medium\"><div class=\"l-section-h i-cf\"><div class=\"g-cols vc_row via_grid cols_1 laptops-cols_inherit tablets-cols_inherit mobiles-cols_1 valign_middle type_default stacking_default\" style=\"--columns-gap:0rem;\"><div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><div class=\"wpb_text_column\"><div class=\"wpb_wrapper\"><h3>Childhood &amp; School Years<\/h3>\n<\/div><\/div><div class=\"w-separator size_medium\"><\/div><div class=\"w-tabs style_default switch_click accordion type_togglable has_scrolling\" style=\"--sections-title-size:inherit\"><div class=\"w-tabs-sections titles-align_none icon_chevron cpos_right\"><div class=\"w-tabs-section active\" id=\"x6cb\"><button class=\"w-tabs-section-header active\" aria-controls=\"content-x6cb\" aria-expanded=\"true\"><div class=\"w-tabs-section-title\">Ideas for general questions<\/div><div class=\"w-tabs-section-control\"><\/div><\/button><div  class=\"w-tabs-section-content\" id=\"content-x6cb\"><div class=\"w-tabs-section-content-h i-cf\"><div class=\"g-cols wpb_row via_grid cols_2 laptops-cols_inherit tablets-cols_inherit mobiles-cols_1 valign_top type_default stacking_default\" style=\"--columns-gap:3rem;\"><div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><div class=\"w-image align_none\"><div class=\"w-image-h\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"2560\" height=\"1440\" src=\"https:\/\/who-cared.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/WHO-CARED_01@2x-scaled.jpg\" class=\"attachment-full size-full\" alt=\"\" loading=\"lazy\" srcset=\"https:\/\/who-cared.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/WHO-CARED_01@2x-scaled.jpg 2560w, https:\/\/who-cared.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/WHO-CARED_01@2x-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/who-cared.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/WHO-CARED_01@2x-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/who-cared.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/WHO-CARED_01@2x-18x10.jpg 18w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 2560px) 100vw, 2560px\" \/><\/div><\/div><div class=\"wpb_text_column us_custom_368f20db\"><div class=\"wpb_wrapper\"><p style=\"text-align: left;\">Family in Kerala, 1960<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><div class=\"wpb_text_column\"><div class=\"wpb_wrapper\"><ul>\n<li>Where did you grow up?<\/li>\n<li>What was your childhood and youth like?<\/li>\n<li>Tell me about your family<\/li>\n<li>Or alternatively: What did you enjoy doing in your childhood?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"w-tabs-section\" id=\"e92a\"><button class=\"w-tabs-section-header\" aria-controls=\"content-e92a\" aria-expanded=\"false\"><div class=\"w-tabs-section-title\">Ideas for specific questions<\/div><div class=\"w-tabs-section-control\"><\/div><\/button><div  class=\"w-tabs-section-content\" id=\"content-e92a\"><div class=\"w-tabs-section-content-h i-cf\"><div class=\"g-cols wpb_row via_grid cols_2 laptops-cols_inherit tablets-cols_inherit mobiles-cols_1 valign_top type_default stacking_default\" style=\"--columns-gap:3rem;\"><div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><div class=\"wpb_text_column\"><div class=\"wpb_wrapper\"><ul>\n<li>What did you most like to play with your siblings?<\/li>\n<li>Can you remember your first swimming experience ?<\/li>\n<li>How did you get to school?<\/li>\n<li>What was your favourite subject and why?<\/li>\n<li>What were your career aspirations?<\/li>\n<li>Were your teachers very strict?<\/li>\n<li>What did you like to eat? What didn't you like at all?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/section><section class=\"l-section wpb_row us_custom_1d3424a0 height_medium\"><div class=\"l-section-h i-cf\"><div class=\"g-cols vc_row via_grid cols_1 laptops-cols_inherit tablets-cols_inherit mobiles-cols_1 valign_middle type_default stacking_default\" style=\"--columns-gap:0rem;\"><div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><div class=\"wpb_text_column\"><div class=\"wpb_wrapper\"><h3>Migration<\/h3>\n<\/div><\/div><div class=\"w-separator size_medium\"><\/div><div class=\"w-tabs style_default switch_click accordion type_togglable has_scrolling\" style=\"--sections-title-size:inherit\"><div class=\"w-tabs-sections titles-align_none icon_chevron cpos_right\"><div class=\"w-tabs-section active\" id=\"d08b\"><button class=\"w-tabs-section-header active\" aria-controls=\"content-d08b\" aria-expanded=\"true\"><div class=\"w-tabs-section-title\">Ideas for general questions<\/div><div class=\"w-tabs-section-control\"><\/div><\/button><div  class=\"w-tabs-section-content\" id=\"content-d08b\"><div class=\"w-tabs-section-content-h i-cf\"><div class=\"g-cols wpb_row via_grid cols_2 laptops-cols_inherit tablets-cols_inherit mobiles-cols_1 valign_top type_default stacking_default\" style=\"--columns-gap:3rem;\"><div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><div class=\"w-image align_none\"><div class=\"w-image-h\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"900\" src=\"https:\/\/who-cared.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/WHO-CARED_08@2x.jpg\" class=\"attachment-full size-full\" alt=\"\" loading=\"lazy\" srcset=\"https:\/\/who-cared.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/WHO-CARED_08@2x.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/who-cared.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/WHO-CARED_08@2x-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/who-cared.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/WHO-CARED_08@2x-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/who-cared.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/WHO-CARED_08@2x-18x10.jpg 18w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><div class=\"wpb_text_column\"><div class=\"wpb_wrapper\"><ul>\n<li>Where did the idea to imigrate come from?<\/li>\n<li><span>Who helped you prepare ?<\/span><\/li>\n<li>Who organised your departure?<\/li>\n<li>What did you imagine Germany to be like?<\/li>\n<li>Where did you arrive \/ land in Germany? What was your first destination in Germany ?<\/li>\n<li>How were the first few days?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"w-tabs-section\" id=\"j2a2\"><button class=\"w-tabs-section-header\" aria-controls=\"content-j2a2\" aria-expanded=\"false\"><div class=\"w-tabs-section-title\">Ideas for specific questions<\/div><div class=\"w-tabs-section-control\"><\/div><\/button><div  class=\"w-tabs-section-content\" id=\"content-j2a2\"><div class=\"w-tabs-section-content-h i-cf\"><div class=\"g-cols wpb_row via_grid cols_2 laptops-cols_inherit tablets-cols_inherit mobiles-cols_1 valign_top type_default stacking_default\" style=\"--columns-gap:3rem;\"><div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><div class=\"wpb_text_column\"><div class=\"wpb_wrapper\"><ul>\n<li>What had to be done before departure?<\/li>\n<li><span>Who organised your visa, your job, your travel?<\/span><\/li>\n<li>Who bid you farewell in India?<\/li>\n<li>What did you pack in your suitcase?<\/li>\n<li>Tell me about your first flight or experiences on the journey.<\/li>\n<li>What was your first German meal and how did it taste?<\/li>\n<li>What were your first impressions upon arrival? What do you remember?<\/li>\n<li>How did you feel?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/section><section class=\"l-section wpb_row us_custom_1d3424a0 height_medium\"><div class=\"l-section-h i-cf\"><div class=\"g-cols vc_row via_grid cols_1 laptops-cols_inherit tablets-cols_inherit mobiles-cols_1 valign_middle type_default stacking_default\" style=\"--columns-gap:0rem;\"><div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><div class=\"wpb_text_column\"><div class=\"wpb_wrapper\"><h3>Working in nursing<\/h3>\n<\/div><\/div><div class=\"w-separator size_medium\"><\/div><div class=\"w-tabs style_default switch_click accordion type_togglable has_scrolling\" style=\"--sections-title-size:inherit\"><div class=\"w-tabs-sections titles-align_none icon_chevron cpos_right\"><div class=\"w-tabs-section active\" id=\"a9ee\"><button class=\"w-tabs-section-header active\" aria-controls=\"content-a9ee\" aria-expanded=\"true\"><div class=\"w-tabs-section-title\">Ideas for general questions<\/div><div class=\"w-tabs-section-control\"><\/div><\/button><div  class=\"w-tabs-section-content\" id=\"content-a9ee\"><div class=\"w-tabs-section-content-h i-cf\"><div class=\"g-cols wpb_row via_grid cols_2 laptops-cols_inherit tablets-cols_inherit mobiles-cols_1 valign_top type_default stacking_default\" style=\"--columns-gap:3rem;\"><div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><div class=\"w-image align_none\"><div class=\"w-image-h\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"2560\" height=\"1440\" src=\"https:\/\/who-cared.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/WHO-CARED_03@2x-scaled.jpg\" class=\"attachment-full size-full\" alt=\"\" loading=\"lazy\" srcset=\"https:\/\/who-cared.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/WHO-CARED_03@2x-scaled.jpg 2560w, https:\/\/who-cared.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/WHO-CARED_03@2x-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/who-cared.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/WHO-CARED_03@2x-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/who-cared.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/WHO-CARED_03@2x-18x10.jpg 18w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 2560px) 100vw, 2560px\" \/><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><div class=\"wpb_text_column\"><div class=\"wpb_wrapper\"><ul>\n<li>What facility did you end up in?<\/li>\n<li>What did you do there?<\/li>\n<li>How did you learn German?<\/li>\n<li>How did your career path progress?<\/li>\n<li>What was your impression of the health and care system?<\/li>\n<li>How do you look at it today?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"w-tabs-section\" id=\"qc5b\"><button class=\"w-tabs-section-header\" aria-controls=\"content-qc5b\" aria-expanded=\"false\"><div class=\"w-tabs-section-title\">Ideas for specific questions<\/div><div class=\"w-tabs-section-control\"><\/div><\/button><div  class=\"w-tabs-section-content\" id=\"content-qc5b\"><div class=\"w-tabs-section-content-h i-cf\"><div class=\"g-cols wpb_row via_grid cols_2 laptops-cols_inherit tablets-cols_inherit mobiles-cols_1 valign_top type_default stacking_default\" style=\"--columns-gap:3rem;\"><div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><div class=\"wpb_text_column\"><div class=\"wpb_wrapper\"><ul>\n<li>What were the first German words you learned?<\/li>\n<li>What did you particularly enjoy about the work?<\/li>\n<li>Not at all?<\/li>\n<li>Where did you have lunch? What did you cook?<\/li>\n<li>What did a typical working day look like \u2013 how has that changed over time?<\/li>\n<li>How has the profession\/nursing changed over time?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/section><section class=\"l-section wpb_row us_custom_1d3424a0 height_medium\"><div class=\"l-section-h i-cf\"><div class=\"g-cols vc_row via_grid cols_1 laptops-cols_inherit tablets-cols_inherit mobiles-cols_1 valign_middle type_default stacking_default\" style=\"--columns-gap:0rem;\"><div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><div class=\"wpb_text_column\"><div class=\"wpb_wrapper\"><h3>Leisure<\/h3>\n<\/div><\/div><div class=\"w-separator size_medium\"><\/div><div class=\"w-tabs style_default switch_click accordion type_togglable has_scrolling\" style=\"--sections-title-size:inherit\"><div class=\"w-tabs-sections titles-align_none icon_chevron cpos_right\"><div class=\"w-tabs-section active\" id=\"b3f9\"><button class=\"w-tabs-section-header active\" aria-controls=\"content-b3f9\" aria-expanded=\"true\"><div class=\"w-tabs-section-title\">Ideas for general questions<\/div><div class=\"w-tabs-section-control\"><\/div><\/button><div  class=\"w-tabs-section-content\" id=\"content-b3f9\"><div class=\"w-tabs-section-content-h i-cf\"><div class=\"g-cols wpb_row via_grid cols_2 laptops-cols_inherit tablets-cols_inherit mobiles-cols_1 valign_top type_default stacking_default\" style=\"--columns-gap:3rem;\"><div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><div class=\"w-image align_none\"><div class=\"w-image-h\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"2560\" height=\"1440\" src=\"https:\/\/who-cared.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/WHO-CARED_04@2x-scaled.jpg\" class=\"attachment-full size-full\" alt=\"\" loading=\"lazy\" srcset=\"https:\/\/who-cared.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/WHO-CARED_04@2x-scaled.jpg 2560w, https:\/\/who-cared.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/WHO-CARED_04@2x-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/who-cared.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/WHO-CARED_04@2x-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/who-cared.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/WHO-CARED_04@2x-18x10.jpg 18w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 2560px) 100vw, 2560px\" \/><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><div class=\"wpb_text_column\"><div class=\"wpb_wrapper\"><ul>\n<li>how did you live (in a hostel or in an appartment) ?<\/li>\n<li>What did you do in your spare time?<\/li>\n<li>How did you keep in touch with India?<\/li>\n<li>What was your contact with Germans like in your environment?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"w-tabs-section\" id=\"t5c8\"><button class=\"w-tabs-section-header\" aria-controls=\"content-t5c8\" aria-expanded=\"false\"><div class=\"w-tabs-section-title\">Ideas for specific questions<\/div><div class=\"w-tabs-section-control\"><\/div><\/button><div  class=\"w-tabs-section-content\" id=\"content-t5c8\"><div class=\"w-tabs-section-content-h i-cf\"><div class=\"g-cols wpb_row via_grid cols_2 laptops-cols_inherit tablets-cols_inherit mobiles-cols_1 valign_top type_default stacking_default\" style=\"--columns-gap:3rem;\"><div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><div class=\"wpb_text_column\"><div class=\"wpb_wrapper\"><ul>\n<li>What did you do with your first wages, what did that mean to you?<\/li>\n<li>What did you do on your days off?<\/li>\n<li>Have you been out, travelling?<\/li>\n<li>Were you ever able to sleep in?<\/li>\n<li>What were you missing?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/section><section class=\"l-section wpb_row us_custom_1d3424a0 height_medium\"><div class=\"l-section-h i-cf\"><div class=\"g-cols vc_row via_grid cols_1 laptops-cols_inherit tablets-cols_inherit mobiles-cols_1 valign_middle type_default stacking_default\" style=\"--columns-gap:0rem;\"><div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><div class=\"wpb_text_column\"><div class=\"wpb_wrapper\"><h3>Family life<\/h3>\n<\/div><\/div><div class=\"w-separator size_medium\"><\/div><div class=\"w-tabs style_default switch_click accordion type_togglable has_scrolling\" style=\"--sections-title-size:inherit\"><div class=\"w-tabs-sections titles-align_none icon_chevron cpos_right\"><div class=\"w-tabs-section active\" id=\"qc9b\"><button class=\"w-tabs-section-header active\" aria-controls=\"content-qc9b\" aria-expanded=\"true\"><div class=\"w-tabs-section-title\">Ideas for general questions<\/div><div class=\"w-tabs-section-control\"><\/div><\/button><div  class=\"w-tabs-section-content\" id=\"content-qc9b\"><div class=\"w-tabs-section-content-h i-cf\"><div class=\"g-cols wpb_row via_grid cols_2 laptops-cols_inherit tablets-cols_inherit mobiles-cols_1 valign_top type_default stacking_default\" style=\"--columns-gap:3rem;\"><div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><div class=\"w-image align_none\"><div class=\"w-image-h\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"2560\" height=\"1440\" src=\"https:\/\/who-cared.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/WHO-CARED_05@2x-scaled.jpg\" class=\"attachment-full size-full\" alt=\"\" loading=\"lazy\" srcset=\"https:\/\/who-cared.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/WHO-CARED_05@2x-scaled.jpg 2560w, https:\/\/who-cared.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/WHO-CARED_05@2x-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/who-cared.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/WHO-CARED_05@2x-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/who-cared.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/WHO-CARED_05@2x-18x10.jpg 18w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 2560px) 100vw, 2560px\" \/><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><div class=\"wpb_text_column\"><div class=\"wpb_wrapper\"><ul>\n<li>How did you meet your husband?<\/li>\n<li>How and where did you get married?<\/li>\n<li>What was it like for you becoming a mother?<\/li>\n<li>How did you organise family life?<\/li>\n<li>What role did your profession play in that?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"w-tabs-section\" id=\"ue66\"><button class=\"w-tabs-section-header\" aria-controls=\"content-ue66\" aria-expanded=\"false\"><div class=\"w-tabs-section-title\">Ideas for specific questions<\/div><div class=\"w-tabs-section-control\"><\/div><\/button><div  class=\"w-tabs-section-content\" id=\"content-ue66\"><div class=\"w-tabs-section-content-h i-cf\"><div class=\"g-cols wpb_row via_grid cols_2 laptops-cols_inherit tablets-cols_inherit mobiles-cols_1 valign_top type_default stacking_default\" style=\"--columns-gap:3rem;\"><div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><div class=\"wpb_text_column\"><div class=\"wpb_wrapper\"><ul>\n<li>Did you take time off before or after the wedding?<\/li>\n<li>How long did you take off work after the birth of your child\/children?<\/li>\n<li>What do you remember first when you think about when the children were small?<\/li>\n<li>Were there difficult times? What were they?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/section><section class=\"l-section wpb_row us_custom_1d3424a0 height_medium\"><div class=\"l-section-h i-cf\"><div class=\"g-cols vc_row via_grid cols_1 laptops-cols_inherit tablets-cols_inherit mobiles-cols_1 valign_middle type_default stacking_default\" style=\"--columns-gap:0rem;\"><div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><div class=\"wpb_text_column\"><div class=\"wpb_wrapper\"><h3>Relationship with India<\/h3>\n<\/div><\/div><div class=\"w-separator size_medium\"><\/div><div class=\"w-tabs style_default switch_click accordion type_togglable has_scrolling\" style=\"--sections-title-size:inherit\"><div class=\"w-tabs-sections titles-align_none icon_chevron cpos_right\"><div class=\"w-tabs-section active\" id=\"y4c7\"><button class=\"w-tabs-section-header active\" aria-controls=\"content-y4c7\" aria-expanded=\"true\"><div class=\"w-tabs-section-title\">Ideas for general questions<\/div><div class=\"w-tabs-section-control\"><\/div><\/button><div  class=\"w-tabs-section-content\" id=\"content-y4c7\"><div class=\"w-tabs-section-content-h i-cf\"><div class=\"g-cols wpb_row via_grid cols_2 laptops-cols_inherit tablets-cols_inherit mobiles-cols_1 valign_top type_default stacking_default\" style=\"--columns-gap:3rem;\"><div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><div class=\"w-image align_none\"><div class=\"w-image-h\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"2000\" height=\"1125\" src=\"https:\/\/who-cared.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/WHO-CARED_06@2x.jpg\" class=\"attachment-full size-full\" alt=\"\" loading=\"lazy\" srcset=\"https:\/\/who-cared.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/WHO-CARED_06@2x.jpg 2000w, https:\/\/who-cared.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/WHO-CARED_06@2x-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/who-cared.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/WHO-CARED_06@2x-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/who-cared.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/WHO-CARED_06@2x-18x10.jpg 18w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 2000px) 100vw, 2000px\" \/><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><div class=\"wpb_text_column\"><div class=\"wpb_wrapper\"><ul>\n<li>How long did you originally intend to stay abroad?<\/li>\n<li>Have you tried going back to India?<\/li>\n<li>Why did you (not) stay?<\/li>\n<li>Have you taken on German citizenship? Why (or why not)?<\/li>\n<li>What role has religion and faith played in your life, and how is it now in old age?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"w-tabs-section\" id=\"t661\"><button class=\"w-tabs-section-header\" aria-controls=\"content-t661\" aria-expanded=\"false\"><div class=\"w-tabs-section-title\">Ideas for specific questions<\/div><div class=\"w-tabs-section-control\"><\/div><\/button><div  class=\"w-tabs-section-content\" id=\"content-t661\"><div class=\"w-tabs-section-content-h i-cf\"><div class=\"g-cols wpb_row via_grid cols_2 laptops-cols_inherit tablets-cols_inherit mobiles-cols_1 valign_top type_default stacking_default\" style=\"--columns-gap:3rem;\"><div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><div class=\"wpb_text_column\"><div class=\"wpb_wrapper\"><ul>\n<li>Was ist dein liebstes deutsches Essen?<\/li>\n<li>Do you enjoy travelling to India, or would you like to move there again?<\/li>\n<li>What do you like particularly about Germany? What about India?<\/li>\n<li>What annoys or bothers you in Germany? What about in India?<\/li>\n<li>Where is home for you?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/section><section class=\"l-section wpb_row us_custom_1d3424a0 height_small\"><div class=\"l-section-h i-cf\"><div class=\"g-cols vc_row via_grid cols_1 laptops-cols_inherit tablets-cols_inherit mobiles-cols_1 valign_middle type_default stacking_default\" style=\"--columns-gap:0rem;\"><div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><div class=\"wpb_text_column\"><div class=\"wpb_wrapper\"><h3>Present &amp; Future<\/h3>\n<\/div><\/div><div class=\"w-separator size_medium\"><\/div><div class=\"w-tabs style_default switch_click accordion type_togglable has_scrolling\" style=\"--sections-title-size:inherit\"><div class=\"w-tabs-sections titles-align_none icon_chevron cpos_right\"><div class=\"w-tabs-section active\" id=\"nd1f\"><button class=\"w-tabs-section-header active\" aria-controls=\"content-nd1f\" aria-expanded=\"true\"><div class=\"w-tabs-section-title\">Ideas for general questions<\/div><div class=\"w-tabs-section-control\"><\/div><\/button><div  class=\"w-tabs-section-content\" id=\"content-nd1f\"><div class=\"w-tabs-section-content-h i-cf\"><div class=\"g-cols wpb_row via_grid cols_2 laptops-cols_inherit tablets-cols_inherit mobiles-cols_1 valign_top type_default stacking_default\" style=\"--columns-gap:3rem;\"><div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><div class=\"w-image align_none\"><div class=\"w-image-h\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"2560\" height=\"1440\" src=\"https:\/\/who-cared.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/WHO-CARED_07@2x-scaled.jpg\" class=\"attachment-full size-full\" alt=\"\" loading=\"lazy\" srcset=\"https:\/\/who-cared.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/WHO-CARED_07@2x-scaled.jpg 2560w, https:\/\/who-cared.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/WHO-CARED_07@2x-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/who-cared.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/WHO-CARED_07@2x-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/who-cared.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/WHO-CARED_07@2x-18x10.jpg 18w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 2560px) 100vw, 2560px\" \/><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><div class=\"wpb_text_column\"><div class=\"wpb_wrapper\"><ul>\n<li>What are you looking forward to?<\/li>\n<li>What are you particularly proud of?<\/li>\n<li>What do you wish for?<\/li>\n<li>Do you miss anything about your job? What?<\/li>\n<li>What would you like to impart to young nurses from India today?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"w-tabs-section\" id=\"seca\"><button class=\"w-tabs-section-header\" aria-controls=\"content-seca\" aria-expanded=\"false\"><div class=\"w-tabs-section-title\">Ideas for specific questions<\/div><div class=\"w-tabs-section-control\"><\/div><\/button><div  class=\"w-tabs-section-content\" id=\"content-seca\"><div class=\"w-tabs-section-content-h i-cf\"><div class=\"g-cols wpb_row via_grid cols_2 laptops-cols_inherit tablets-cols_inherit mobiles-cols_1 valign_top type_default stacking_default\" style=\"--columns-gap:3rem;\"><div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><div class=\"wpb_text_column\"><div class=\"wpb_wrapper\"><ul>\n<li>What are you enjoying most in your everyday life right now?<\/li>\n<li>Do you miss anything about your job? What?<\/li>\n<li>How has this changed?<\/li>\n<li>How do you envision your own care?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/section><section class=\"l-section wpb_row us_custom_1d3424a0 height_medium\"><div class=\"l-section-h i-cf\"><div class=\"g-cols vc_row via_grid cols_1 laptops-cols_inherit tablets-cols_inherit mobiles-cols_1 valign_middle type_default stacking_default\" style=\"--columns-gap:0rem;\"><div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><div class=\"wpb_text_column\"><div class=\"wpb_wrapper\"><p><strong data-start=\"57\" data-end=\"146\">Please also ask the following questions \u2013 either in between or at the end:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Name<\/li>\n<li>Year of birth<\/li>\n<li>Place of origin<\/li>\n<li>Year of Migration<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div><\/div><div class=\"w-separator size_small\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/section><section class=\"l-section wpb_row height_small\"><div class=\"l-section-h i-cf\"><div class=\"g-cols vc_row via_grid cols_1 laptops-cols_inherit tablets-cols_inherit mobiles-cols_1 valign_top type_default stacking_default\" style=\"--columns-gap:1rem;\"><div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container us_custom_8f8b2bea has_text_color has_bg_color\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><div class=\"wpb_text_column\"><div class=\"wpb_wrapper\"><h6>Dealing with sensitive topics<\/h6>\n<p>Conversations about one's life story can bring back painful memories. In the parent-child context, these emotions can be particularly impactful. To help you prepare for this or to deal with it afterwards, psychotherapist Dolwin Canitz offers non-binding and free advice \u2013<span> by phone or video call, before or after the conversation. Feel free to contact <a href=\"mailto:dolwincanitz@outlook.de\">An Dolwen<\/a><\/span><span>\u00a0directly or email us at <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"mailto:support@who-cared.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">support@who-cared.com<\/a>.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><div class=\"w-separator size_small\"><\/div><div class=\"w-tabs us_custom_f319a556 has_text_color style_default switch_click accordion type_togglable has_scrolling\" style=\"--sections-title-size:inherit\"><div class=\"w-tabs-sections titles-align_none icon_chevron cpos_right\"><div class=\"w-tabs-section has_text_color\" id=\"s633\" style=\"color:#E5E0D3;\"><button class=\"w-tabs-section-header\" aria-controls=\"content-s633\" aria-expanded=\"false\"><div class=\"w-tabs-section-title\">How to react in sensitive moments: Tips from psychotherapist Dolwin Canitz<\/div><div class=\"w-tabs-section-control\"><\/div><\/button><div  class=\"w-tabs-section-content\" id=\"content-s633\"><div class=\"w-tabs-section-content-h i-cf\"><div class=\"g-cols wpb_row via_grid cols_1 laptops-cols_inherit tablets-cols_inherit mobiles-cols_1 valign_top type_default stacking_default\" style=\"--columns-gap:3rem;\"><div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><div class=\"wpb_text_column\"><div class=\"wpb_wrapper\"><ol>\n<li><strong>Describe factually<\/strong>, What you observe: \u201eI see you're about to cry.\u201c<\/li>\n<li><b>Observe and share what you feel<\/b>: \u201eIt touches me to see you like this.\u201c Try to bear this unsettling moment and what you're feeling, without wanting to \u201eresolve\u201c it immediately.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Reflect together<\/strong> the feelings: \u201eWhat would tears say if they could speak?\u201c<\/li>\n<li>Give <strong>Appreciative feedback<\/strong>It's understandable that it evokes so much emotion.\u201e<\/li>\n<li><strong>Reflect and acknowledge<\/strong> your conversation partner\u2019s feelings: \u201cThat must have been very stressful.\u201d<\/li>\n<li><strong>Hold space<\/strong>\u201eWould you like to take a moment to catch your breath and have a break, or shall we continue talking?\u201c, \u201eYou decide how much you're comfortable sharing right now.\u201c<\/li>\n<li><strong>Summarise gently:<\/strong> \u201eYou have experienced a lot of pain, and we'll talk about it step by step \u2013 entirely at your own pace.\u201c<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"w-tabs-section has_text_color\" id=\"o7d0\" style=\"color:#E5E0D3;\"><button class=\"w-tabs-section-header\" aria-controls=\"content-o7d0\" aria-expanded=\"false\"><div class=\"w-tabs-section-title\">Further support services<\/div><div class=\"w-tabs-section-control\"><\/div><\/button><div  class=\"w-tabs-section-content\" id=\"content-o7d0\"><div class=\"w-tabs-section-content-h i-cf\"><div class=\"g-cols wpb_row via_grid cols_1 laptops-cols_inherit tablets-cols_inherit mobiles-cols_1 valign_top type_default stacking_default\" style=\"--columns-gap:3rem;\"><div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><div class=\"wpb_text_column\"><div class=\"wpb_wrapper\"><p>Some situations require acute or long-term help. You'll find both among the following points:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Telephone counselling: free and around the clock: 0800 111 0 111 or 0800 111 0 222<\/li>\n<li>Childline: 116 111<\/li>\n<li>116 117: Arranging appointments for psychotherapy, for both a psychotherapy consultation and subsequent therapy<\/li>\n<li>Emergency call 112 \u2013 in acute danger<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"w-separator size_small\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/section><section class=\"l-section wpb_row height_small\"><div class=\"l-section-h i-cf\"><div class=\"g-cols vc_row via_grid cols_2 laptops-cols_inherit tablets-cols_inherit mobiles-cols_1 valign_top type_default stacking_default\" style=\"--columns-gap:1rem;\"><div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container us_custom_fe8181e3 has_text_color has_bg_color\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><div class=\"wpb_text_column\"><div class=\"wpb_wrapper\"><h6>Questions Guide as PDF<\/h6>\n<p>Download our guide to questions and print it out so you can refer to it during the conversation.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><div class=\"w-separator size_small\"><\/div><div class=\"w-btn-wrapper align_none\"><a class=\"w-btn us-btn-style_5\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"\/download\/WHO-CARED_Question-Guide_DE.pdf\"><span class=\"w-btn-label\">Download PDF<\/span><\/a><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container us_custom_fe8181e3 has_text_color has_bg_color\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><div class=\"wpb_text_column\"><div class=\"wpb_wrapper\"><h6>Have you thought of everything?<\/h6>\n<p>Whether before, after, or during the conversation: you'll have everything under control with our checklist.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><div class=\"w-separator size_small\"><\/div><div class=\"w-btn-wrapper align_none\"><a class=\"w-btn us-btn-style_5\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"\/download\/WHO-CARED_Checklist-Home_DE.pdf\"><span class=\"w-btn-label\">Download PDF (for home use)<\/span><\/a><\/div><div class=\"w-btn-wrapper align_none\"><a class=\"w-btn us-btn-style_5\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"\/download\/WHO-CARED_Checklist-Studio_DE.pdf\"><span class=\"w-btn-label\">Download PDF (for the studio)<\/span><\/a><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/section><section class=\"l-section wpb_row height_medium\"><div class=\"l-section-h i-cf\"><div class=\"g-cols vc_row via_grid cols_1 laptops-cols_inherit tablets-cols_inherit mobiles-cols_1 valign_top type_default stacking_default\"><div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><div class=\"w-btn-wrapper align_center\"><a class=\"w-btn us-btn-style_1\" href=\"\/en\/contribute\/\"><span class=\"w-btn-label\">Back to overview<\/span><\/a><\/div><div class=\"w-separator size_huge\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/section>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Fragen-Guide Dieser Guide soll eine Orientierung und Inspiration liefern. 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